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Whether it’s a cozy post-coital cuddle or the serene satisfaction following a solo session, the afterglow is that unmistakable halo of happiness we carry long after the climax. Far from being a fleeting sensation, the afterglow is a scientifically grounded phenomenon driven by hormones and emotional connectivity.

Our friends at LELO share everything you need to know about the science of the afterglow and why it deserves a central place in the conversation about pleasure, intimacy, and well-being.

The afterglow is the warm, contented feeling that lingers after sexual activity or orgasm. It’s that magical moment when you feel deeply connected to your partner or yourself. This glowing sensation can last minutes, hours, or even days, influencing how you approach your relationships, work, and personal life with a rejuvenated sense of calm and joy.

The Science Behind the Glow

Orgasm triggers the release of a powerful cocktail of hormones. Oxytocin, often called the “love hormone,” strengthens trust and bonding, especially during partnered intimacy. Dopamine delivers an intense rush of pleasure, while serotonin enhances relaxation and happiness. These hormones are universal, playing the same role whether the experience is shared with a partner or savored solo.

The parasympathetic nervous system also kicks in post-orgasm, reducing stress and fostering a profound sense of well-being. This physiological response underscores that pleasure isn’t just about feeling good in the moment; it’s about nurturing your mind and body in meaningful ways.

The Benefits of the Afterglow

Numerous studies show that the effects of post-orgasmic bliss can persist for up to 48 hours. During this time, the afterglow fosters emotional connection in relationships, boosts mood, and even strengthens immune function. It can also enhance self-esteem, helping you approach your day with confidence and optimism.

Partnered Pleasure

In relationships, the afterglow is an emotional glue, reinforcing bonds and increasing satisfaction. By prolonging this shared connection, couples can navigate conflicts more effectively and deepen their intimacy. The key is to be present and savor the moment together through touch, eye contact, or quiet conversation.

Solo Afterglow

Self-pleasure offers the same hormonal and emotional rewards as partnered sex, making it a powerful form of self-care. Beyond physical release, it’s an act of self-discovery and affirmation, promoting body positivity and emotional recharge. The afterglow from solo sessions is a reminder that connecting with yourself is just as vital as connecting with others.

Extending The Glow

To fully savor the magic of the afterglow, consider these tips:

Extend the Glow: Take a slow, mindful approach to aftercare. A shared bath, journaling about your experience, or meditative breathing can amplify the benefits.

The afterglow is more than a momentary sensation; it’s a testament to the beauty of connection, intimacy, and self-awareness. By leaning into these moments, you embrace the joy of pleasure and unlock a deeper understanding of your emotional and physical needs.

So, next time you bask in that warm, lingering glow, let it remind you of the transformative power of pleasure to nourish your body, mind, and soul. Stay glowing

Prioritize Connection: For couples, linger in the moment by sharing a cuddle, eye contact, or a few whispered words. For solo sessions, take time to appreciate your body and the joy it brings.

Set the Scene: Create an environment that invites relaxation. Soft lighting, calming music, or a warm blanket can extend the moment’s serenity.

Practice Gratitude: Whether with a partner or alone, reflect on the experience and express gratitude – for your body, your partner, or simply the pleasure itself. For the Silo, Emilie Melloni Quemar/ Lelo.

About LELO
LELO is not “just a sex toy brand”; it’s a self-care movement aimed at those who know that satisfaction transcends gender, sexual
orientation, race, and age. We’re offering the experience of ecstasy without shame, the pleasure of discovering all the wonders of one’s
body, thus facilitating our customers with confidence, that leads to a fulfilled intimate life. LELOi AB is the Swedish company behind LELO,
where offices extend from Stockholm to San Jose, from Sydney to Shanghai

Some of us are participating in Dry January – (giving up alcohol for the whole month after enjoying it during December festivities) has become pretty popular worldwide. We must agree it`s giving the New Year a quite strong health kick.

Dry January`s popularity is not a surprise at all and has a lot of benefits; it saves money, makes people sleep better, no hangovers (hello morning sex), and brings numerous health welfare – reduced blood pressure, improved skin, more energy – the thing that people really need, according to LELO survey. For 61.28% of respondents, low energy level makes them hard to make it through January.

And even though you might not be a regular drinker, you (and your liver) surely deserve a small break. With this in mind, LELO endorses Dry January with a small note on a side – not everything has to be dry (wink, wink).

While Dry January has its charm and a good cause, there is a widespread myth that it is also quite a challenge – especially if you want to continue enjoying your sex life. An encounter without the help of that small something that makes you relax your nerves might sound less exciting, but actually, it turns out, all that not drinking has some pretty positive effect on your sex life.

And no, it`s not just about the “being present at the moment”; being sober significantly improves the physical side of sex. If you have ever experienced drooping after drinking, you`ll know that erectile dysfunction is a real thing.

Drinking can cause struggles to get and have an erection, leading to disappointment in sex.

Besides that, studies have shown that women are more likely to orgasm when they are entirely sober because alcohol reduces physical sensitivity, meaning it`s also harder to feel pleasure. Also, women might struggle to get aroused in the first place when drinking. Making your vagina free from the influence of alcohol gives sex a whole new dimension.

Also, it is a fact that alcohol leads to irresponsible sex encounters; people are more likely to forget to use condoms because alcohol lowers inhibitions, leading to unwanted pregnancy and STIs. Being alcohol-free sounds pretty responsible here, right?

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Studies show that alcohol often leads to having partners you might not actually be that keen on, as well as post-sex unsatisfaction. Knowing this, Dry January will ensure you choose people you want, make sexual decisions you are comfortable with, and enjoy it without regret. Additionally, according to the LELO survey, 93.7% of people would be willing to try something new sex-wise to cheer themselves and/or their partner. Is there a better timing than “depressing” January?

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To wrap it all up, cutting out alcohol (a well-known depressant) will make you well rested and more energetic, which automatically increases your libido and improves your sex life. The highlight of Dry January will be more exciting and engaging sex – the one you actually remember. And if we add 51.7% of our survey respondents who will consider buying a new toy to incorporate into their love life, January will be anything but dry.

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